No.

[Merlin, no. This time Sirius shrinks back in person as well, a half-step shuffled backwards as his hand drops to his side once more.]

Only a question. Not an invitation. Choice, autonomy, doesn't seem to much enter into-- [He jerks his chin up, sharply, as if to encompass their surroundings.] --most of this.

Is everyone as courteous as you, with waiting for invites?